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Simone FM Spinner's avatar

I met Tony Bourdain a handful of times and experienced his acerbic brilliance first hand. He was mannered and hints of kindness were present but he was like a caged wildcat in his essence. His growing misery was well on display on our mast meeting the year before his death. He will forever be missed and aside from Kitchen Confidential, early No Reservations was is truest work…Paris, Bordeaux, and San Sebastian, in particular.

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Henry Jeffreys's avatar

It's really sad to think of him like that. Thank you for commenting.

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Melanie Jappy's avatar

Poignant piece, Henry. It brings up a lot of emotions and memories. That someone so connected to food, and the joy it can bring, found it so hard to find happiness…it just fills me with sadness.

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Henry Jeffreys's avatar

Thanks Mel.

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Pippa's avatar

"On second thoughts this is more of a Grodon Ramsay anecdote than a Bourdain one"

"By the mid 00s, publicity trips to London no longer included nights out with his publicist’s university friends."

Lolled at both of these lines. Somehow you manage to tell fabulous celebrity stories while gently taking yourself down a peg. An art form!

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Barley magazine's avatar

I’d be disappointed if you could!

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Barley magazine's avatar

Heady days. Lovely piece Henry.

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Henry Jeffreys's avatar

I wish I could remember more!

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Philip J Kirk's avatar

Nothing crass in this article. You capture the essence of the man. Beyond the macho bravado of Ramsey which amused me in this piece, there always seemed to be a lugrubious air around AB in his later days.

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Henry Jeffreys's avatar

Thanks Philip!

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Malcolm Jolley's avatar

My brief introduction to AB - I bought him a drink and had a few minutes of chit chat before he did a reading in Toronto - confirms that he was the same "off"as he was "on". Lovely piece, thanks for sharing.

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Henry Jeffreys's avatar

Good story! Thanks Malcolm.

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Lynn Morgan's avatar

What a great read! Really enjoyed this.

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Henry Jeffreys's avatar

Thanks Lynn!

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Miquel Hudin's avatar

And here I thought Kitchen Confidential was the first book he'd written, but of course it wasn't. Thanks for sharing the story even if it veered into Ramsey Land at points.

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Henry Jeffreys's avatar

The crime books are meant to be quite good. I should check them out.

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Miquel Hudin's avatar

I'm definitely intrigued

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